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Questions to Ask About Reports You Receive

How to read a report about your child without panic: ask what sections mean, what is based on observation, what happens next, and how to store and share the report accurately.

Published 24 October 2026Checked on 24 October 2026Families generally, US and UK edition

The short answer

Read a new report twice: first for its structure and its final recommendations, then slowly, listing every term you do not understand and every statement you want explained. Then ask the author, or the professional who sent it, what the key sections mean in plain words, what the report is based on, and what happens next. You are entitled to understand documents about your child; asking is normal. What the report concludes is the author's professional view; this page does not interpret reports, and the answers to your questions belong to the professionals involved with your child. File the report and your questions together using the notebook record, and prepare for any discussion meeting with the review questions.

The two-pass method

Pass one is a map: headings, length, who wrote it, when, and the closing section where actions usually live. Many parents read a report from the first line at midnight and remember only the most alarming sentence; the map pass prevents that by showing you the shape first. Pass two is the working read, pen in hand. Underline terms for your jargon list. Mark statements about settings, dates and observations, because those are the checkable parts. Mark recommendations separately, with who is named to do each one. At the end, write your question page: meaning questions, basis questions and next-step questions, in that order. If the report will be discussed at a meeting, send the meaning questions ahead if you can; professionals would rather explain a term by email than watch you struggle with it in a room full of people.

Questions to ask about a report

Choose from these according to what your two passes turned up:

  • Could you explain this section or term in plain words?
  • What is this part based on: observation, records, our conversation, or school information?
  • Over what dates was the information gathered?
  • Which recommendations are for school, which for home, and which for the service?
  • What happens next as a result of this report, and who receives a copy?
  • If we think a factual detail is wrong, how do we ask for it to be checked?
  • When will this report be reviewed or superseded?

Ask factual-correction questions separately from meaning questions; they travel by different routes, and mixing them slows both down.

A jargon list at work, as an illustration

As an illustration only: a parent reads an eight-page report and lists six unfamiliar terms in the notebook margin. A short email asks about the six terms and one date that looks wrong. The reply explains the terms in a paragraph each, confirms the date was a typing slip, and issues a corrected page. The parent files the reply with the report, so the pair now read clearly together. The report is invented; the pattern is not. Reports are written quickly by busy people using the shorthand of their field, and a calm, specific question list is the standard way families everywhere turn them into documents the whole team can actually use.

When a report is upsetting or confusing

Some reports are hard reading, because they describe difficulties in formal language that strips out everything warm. Two protections help. First, timing: do not do the close read late at night or just before the school run; give the document a decent half hour in daylight, when you can act on questions straight away. Second, company: read it with a partner, family member or friend if you can, because a second reader spots the recommendations section you skimmed past and hears tone more accurately than a worried first reader. If the report contains something you believe is factually wrong, use the route in the disagreement guide: dated facts, in writing, unhurried. And remember the report is one document in a longer story your notebook holds, not the whole story of your child.

Map first, questions second

Skim for shape, read with a pen, list the jargon, ask the questions. A report you have questioned properly becomes a working tool for the next meeting instead of a weight in a drawer. The meaning of the document belongs to its author to explain; making sure the explanation reaches you, in plain words, is a job you are fully entitled to do.

Parent support, not medical advice. This guide is about household routines, organisation and communication, written in general terms for parents and carers. It does not diagnose, assess or treat any child, and it makes no promises about behaviour. For questions about your own child's health or development, your clinician or paediatrician is the right person to ask; for school decisions, talk to your child's school.

Sources and further reading

Evidence basis: Questions-and-notebook guide. It helps parents prepare questions and records for professionals; the answers belong to the professionals involved with your child, not to this page. Applies when: A report or written summary about your child arrives and the language is dense, long or hard to place

Keep going in this corner

Corner 19 - Questions to ask professionals Questions to Ask Professionals: A Parent's Notebook A parent notebook system for appointments and meetings: prepare a one-page brief, ask clear questions, take simple notes, and keep a record of who said what, when. The answers always belong to the professionals involved with your child. Corner 19 - Questions to ask professionals When You Disagree With a Professional View How to handle disagreement with a professional view calmly and constructively: state what you see at home, ask how views are reconciled, request the reasoning in writing, and keep the relationship working. Corner 19 - Questions to ask professionals Questions to Ask at a Review Appointment Questions to prepare for a review appointment: what has changed, what the notes from last time said, what happens next and when the next review will be, all recorded in your notebook.